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Asked by SCREWED from usa | Jul. 15, 2017 15:24

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Born SF, CA Sept. 29, 1970. Married Rooster, Child Dragon. Am I screwed? Will I find career as nurse

I walk on egg shells everyday. We love each other, but my Rooster husband (March 16, 1957) drinks a lot and puts me down. He thinks I am stupid. My child is a Dragon, May 23, 2000, she loves me, but is very much like her father without the drink. We were married Sept. 18, 1999. I did not pursue a career after college. I raised his adoptive children from his first marriage. Then we had our daughter. Our daughter will go to college soon and I have put myself back in school in the hopes to get into nursing school. I want a career and a life that I can be proud of. I don't want to feel inadequate or stupid anymore. It is a bully household. However, I know they love me and I them. I surf and take care of animals to keep calm. Will I find a true calling and love?

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Answered by Pauline | Jul. 17, 2017 03:48

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You and your husband have high compatibility, but alcholic could do large harm to your relationship. What's neccessary for you now is to become financially independent. After finishing school, you will find a good job as a nurse. Then you may have a dialogue on equal footing with your husband to let him know that you don't have to depend on him any more. Good luck. I hope you have a happy life in the future.

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Answered by Screwed | Jul. 17, 2017 11:05

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Thank you. I feel that I can breathe. He was very surprised that I chose to go back to school. He is challenging me, because he wants to retire and travel very soon and me with him. Which is fine, except that I feel that being a home mom for so long that I have not had my own career and life. We are so opposite. I'm caring and he is not. He drinks and I do not. I love your words and I will remind myself to keep the faith. I agree. I make a little income; and I believe he planned it that way. Staying home and raising the kids, etc. However, I truly agree that I need to live for myself now. Thank you.

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