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Asked by Tutu from usa | May. 07, 2017 21:50
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Rabbit (1975 female) married to Snake (1977) - can this marriage survive?

Dear sir - we have been married for almost 12 yrs (tumultuous) and have 3 kids but things are at a cross road now. I want to make it work but need and desire basic respect and. Communication . Can we survive?

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Answered by Alaina | May. 07, 2017 22:42
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Actually, both of you need to make efforts to improve the marriage life. You need to have more communication with your husband. Express your inner true feelings and try to solve the problem together. If you still don't accept basic respect, that will be the time to think about your future.
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Answered by Peter | May. 08, 2017 05:39
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Tutu,
There is no way that this marriage could survive.
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Answered by Tutu | May. 08, 2017 20:09
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We have 3 children...we are still living together and love each other despite all the ups and downs. There must be some way. I do reiki and believe in God. Please advise. I do not want to leave him. I have done a lot and will continue to make more efforts. Of course things are bad right now but is there anything that can make it somewhat better?
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Answered by Tutu | May. 08, 2017 20:18
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I am born on 10/19/1975 at 2.20pm and he is born on 4/17/1977 ard 7am ...both in India .
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Answered by Alaina | May. 09, 2017 00:48
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Hey, Tutu, don't be so upset. If you want, there will still be such chances to improve the love relationship. You are advised to find some ways to communicate with your husband and figure out the problems first.
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Answered by Peter | May. 09, 2017 01:55
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Tutu,
I will give you an answer soon, since you have just provided the date of your birth and his date of birth.
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Answered by Peter | May. 10, 2017 04:53
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Tutu,
Your husband had an afflicted Neptune in his 7th House of Marriage. This means difficulties in marriage, because he is confused emotionally or plainly misled by other people (friends or relatives.) He is also unreliable in any marriage. For the last 2 ½ years, transiting Saturn was in his 7th House, so he felt he was carrying a heavy burden. Give him a bit of more time, and in one year from now, transiting Jupiter will enter his 7th House, and it will restore his good program (that it is nice to be married). His natal Mars was opposing your Venus, and this has brought many problems. His sun was conjunct your Jupiter, and this is a very good astrological aspect to keep the marriage going. His Sun had opposed your Sun, and this creates a powerful attraction, but in the long run it creates repulsion, if you don’t maintain a consistent level of co-operation between you two. Although I must admit that to maintain this marriage will be extremely hard, it could be saved for the sake of your children, with lots of hard work from you and from your husband. Try to get some mediation from people you both trust. Good luck to your family.
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