Pig male and Ox love compatibility

Hi, my boyfriend is a pig male November 3, 1983 and I am a female Ox, September 1985. We get along well, but he has been dealing with anxiety due to not getting in full-time at work. We are talking about marriage, but he wants to wait until he gets in. I have three kids of my own and he would like one together once we are settled although it would require surgery. Spoke to Doctor and he said that I am healthy enough to have more and the operation should be a success. Does it look like this relationship will work, we will all be happy together and have another/other kids?

Thank you!