Answered by Peter
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Apr. 13, 2017 17:53
Dear Mrs. Not Happy,
Before you point the finger at your husband for all your misgivings, lets have a look at what the stars say about you. Be careful not to lose touch with reality. It may be “bad”(as you say now) for you living with your husband, but it would be worst without him. Your choice of words, when you said you feel sympathy for him, is confusing, as it could mean understanding, pity, or approval. You could only marry for pity if you tie the knot with a man who has no arms or legs, and you want to care for him. Transiting Saturn was conjunct your natal Uranus, for over a year, and it made your clear thinking very unstable. Now transiting Saturn conjuncts you natal Neptune, annoying you with misleading dreams for another 6 months. As you had Sun in your 8th House, you will inherit property and money from him. If you are now already married to him for 3 or for 6 years (you didn’t mention it), you may go through some rough times, but Ox and Monkey marriage is not classified as an untenable marriage. It is average. In the Middle Ages in Europe, giving blood was the cure for all illnesses. So it may be good idea to donate some blood. Because his natal Mars opposed your natal Sun, this is an excellent contact, and you two could inspire each other, and be successful together.
Love comes and goes, and comes back again. You should not use love as the only indicator for a 60 years marriage. Scientific discoveries indicate that the hormones are manipulating us. Hormones could also interfere with happiness in a marriage. You didn’t mention if you have children, and what is your husband’s attitude to having children.