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Asked by Laura from malaysia | Feb. 17, 2017 05:34

About:Year of the Rat

I am a female Rat born November 15th 1984 married to a Rabbit for 4 years.

Now but our marriage is falling apart. Work take my husband times and I am feeling worthless and emotionally drained. I am not happy at all in my relationship and I am considering a separation. Is there anyways I can consider this option good?

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Answered by Peter | Feb. 17, 2017 18:56

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Laura,
Our table on this page at love relationship shows that Rat and Rabbit get top mark in love. I looked at you natal chart (you didn’t tell you hour and minute of birth, so I couldn’t see your natal houses) and I saw something, which explains what is going through your mind. When you were born, you had Venus conjunct Neptune. Therefore this aspect has a positive side and a negative side. On the positive side, you are sensitive and understanding, and you can bring joy and peace to your husband. You attract him to you with a magnetic power. On the negative side, you could be an impractical romantic dreamer, and become a burden for your husband. This conjunction of Venus/Neptune makes you unreliable in love. You didn’t say if your husband was born in 1975 or 1987. That could also be very important in analysing your situation. You had Moon in Leo, so you need to be treated as a Princess. Transiting Neptune make a bad aspect (called in-conjunct or 150°) to your natal Moon, which controls your feelings, causing to you all these lying dreams, that love life may be greener, outside your marriage. Transiting Jupiter transits now over your natal Saturn, and has the potential to disrupt your luck. My advice to you is to wait another year, until your husband get out of his opposite year, which is influencing him negatively. You too don’t have a good year this year. Be patient, and don’t act on dreams, which from astrological point of view are lying to you. Transiting Pluto conjuncts your’ natal Jupiter (the planet which bring you luck in life,) and because it has been there for years, at this moment Pluto tries wrecking your good fortune. Good luck to both of you.

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Answered by Laure | Feb. 17, 2017 19:35

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Thank you very much Peter, my husband is born in 1975.
Our situation is now extremely complicated for both and We do not see any improvement and this leads to a path of no return . I have to be more distant as I feel like my emotions and feelings are in danger and we have many things unsaid in our relationship

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Answered by Peter | Feb. 17, 2017 21:30

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Laura,
Because your husband was born in a year with Wood element, and yours is wood too, there is a bit of a problem there, but not to warrant a split between you two. Talk to your husband, and tell him that it is important he agrees that you can go on a vacation, so you could be away from him for a couple of weeks. In this way you two could see how you cope without the other. As I explained to you, what you feel is real to you. That is your reality. Remember also that when one is disoriented in a forest, one doesn’t really know where are the four cardinal points, and unless he or she has a compass, one could go in the wrong direction. The way I see it, you are disoriented at this time. My astrological advice to you is to wait until next year in March. If you will feel the same as you feel now, then do what you want to do. Until then, anything you may do, you will live to regret it later. Good luck to both of you.

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