my boyfriend born april 10, 1987, and i august 19,1992.

Hi, our long distance relationship has been falling apart before the summer 2016. The biggest challenges has happened september 2016 up to this day. Always arguing, bad communication, dishonesty and confusion. I dont think we will make it through in the new year, i want to know if our relationship will be at ease on the new year or will we just continue to be childish and unwilling to make efforts in our long distance relationship? Are we a good match ?