Hi! My date of birth is March 13th 1987 and his is November 12th 1980.

Anna,
If you read the compatibility chart, it says that Monkey and Rabbit are compatible. But this is only half-truth. We all know that most of the time, a half-truth is most likely a lie. It is so because it doesn’t take into consideration in your case that your element for the year of your birth was Fire, and his element for the year of his birth was Metal. And as you know, fire melts metal, or metal absorbs all the fire, anyway, the result is destructive. You will have to pass through your opposite year, and it will start in one month from now. Any marriage you may sign in your opposite year, will be troublesome for you. You will only find the right man for you in 2018, and you will marry in 2019. Good luck to you and to him.