Born 11/4/61 metal ox snake hour. He 2/19/1965.

Asked regarding he showing interest hot, cold, hot. Dates. Very much connected when together but then he just goes cold?! Before ans was marriage and hreat compatibility bit I have been very hurt before...this guy I like a lot but he opens up only a little. Says he has not been woth anyone except me. He likes me he says but likes to be by himself. Confusing signals but I know 'something' is holding him back. Can you say what that is? Should I continue on hopes of this soul connection possible marriage? I want to be only on soul deep connection and marriage. Thank you