Is there any possibility that my husband for ten years and been separated with him for ten years?

Ruth,
Sometimes we delude ourselves into believing things, which cannot last. And this is exactly your case. You and your former husband are totally incompatible. Each of you would want to be in charge in your marriage. It would never work. Find someone born in 1978 (Pisces or Cancer), as this would be your best match. You are Metal Dog and your former husband is a Wood Dragon. And you can harm him without you realizing it, as Metal cuts Wood. If you listen to my advice, your new man would be Earth Horse, and as you may know, Metal always benefits from Earth. Good luck to you.