My birth details April 14 1979 time 9:10am in Ahmadnagar, MS India.

Praj, you may need to try your best to see if this marriage can still be fixed. If there is really no turning back, you need to put yourself together and move on. You can definitely find a compatible man in the long run.
As for your work, it is advised you figure out what you really want to do and apply for this kind of positions. Well prepare yourself for each interview and you should get a job very soon. Good luck!