Born on 30 nov 1987 in monday 11 morning brunei! My husband born on 14 dec 1984!

Mary,
You were born in the Year of the Fire Rabbit while your husband was born in the year of the Wood Rat. Wood has to burn, to keep the fire going. If your husband wants to have a traditional marriage, in which you are supposed to follow the leader, then your marriage will soon hit the rocks, so to speak. If he wants to understand that you have qualities of a leader, and these qualities could benefit the two of you, in a situation in which you have a business partnership together, then he can also benefit enormously from it. The Chinese astrology says that Rabbit and Rat could only be intimate friends. Good luck to both of you.