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Asked by Anastasya lee from indonesia | Oct. 09, 2016 11:01

About:Year of the Rat

I am a rat born in 29 oct 84, have a male kinda ex boyfriend born in 18 april 79.

I do not know what went wrong but is it just chinese horoscope and zodiac wise we are not matched? He and i both we are stubborn and secretive. We were going out for about 9 months and i found out he lies and covers everything about his life. We are kinda on a break now. Do u see any chance recovering from all this? Need some guidance on the compibiltyness and advice on hand. Thx in advance.

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Answered by Peter | Oct. 09, 2016 19:13

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Hi,
Your mind does not lie to you. What you saw is true. You and your Earth Goat man do not get along at all. You two were not made for one another. You need to move on and close this suffering in silence. Accept what the wise ancient Chinese astrologers said all along that Goat and Rat are not compatible in a relationship. You need to find a man born in 1976 or 1992. You will have a successful marriage with one of these men. Refuse to suffer, when you can enjoy life. There are still few more months left from this year, so tell your man good-bye, and find a compatible man. Next time write your prospective man’s date of birth and ask for advice before you plunge into a relationship. If Chinese astrology says you are not compatible, you better believe it and look for someone else. If you don’t do that, you will repeat the same mistake over and over. And your best years would be lost. Good luck.

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Answered by Anastasya lee | Oct. 21, 2016 11:12

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Hi, its me again. Thanks for your reply. Somehow i felt we are on the adjusting phase since its still early on the 1st year of the relationship. Its not just his fault, its mine too since i have been secretive as well.i know that we adore and love each other.we both have a broken marriage and a child eachon our own. I. Ever really cares anout the little lies he. Made but the last one quite severe. He went on vacation with his daughter and his ex wife and lied to me about it. He apologizes a bunch of time but sadly that doesnt makes me any better. I was kinda hoping we xould work this out and having my trust back on him . And i was kinda hoping to get a positive answer on all this but is it really that we are that incompatible ? Every relationahip has ita ups and sown i mean. Really? There's no chance of mending it back ? :(

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Answered by Peter | Oct. 21, 2016 15:39

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Anastasya,
You are in a state of denial, while I am not involved at all in this, and I see things from a different prospective. What you do, any human being would do. Fine, you wipe with a sponge everything that happened, and start afresh, in the hope that this time it would work. Astrology is not a law made by people. It is a law of nature, similar to the law of electricity: you touch a live wire, you get electrocuted. You can try many times to make this relationship work, if you so wish, but you and him have to put a tremendous energy into this relationship just to keep it afloat. Good luck to both of you.

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Answered by Anastasya lee | Oct. 26, 2016 17:08

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Thanks peter for your good wishes, you may call me naive but from my last marriage i do learn one thing. It ended because i gave up on it.i believe i can make it work this time eventhough its alot of work just to keep it afloat. I saw a comment below a rat wife and a sheep husband married for 12 years.the difference is this sheep of mine is everything else but not a cheater. Deep in my heart in my heart i know that. Despite his bad temper i think :p

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