Answered by Peter from Australia | Sep. 16, 2016 17:19
Praj,
I empathize with you, since you have two boys to take care of. I also know the strong characters of the Ox people, and my advice to you is to calm down and listen carefully. At the moment, Mercury is Retrograde, so no matter what you think that you want to do, it is likely to be a flawed thought. Please wait few more weeks before you could take a decision regarding moving back with him, as this is definitely a wrong move, since he had already asked for divorce from you. I’m telling you that having a pure conscience that you’ve done the right thing for your family, it is not enough to maintain a relationship with a man who is incompatible with you, and who officially asked for separation from you. Your children are at a great disadvantage, as his new girlfriend doesn’t have their welfare at heart, and he can’t do much to change that fact. Your great disadvantage is that you are oblivious of the future, which for you doesn’t exist, as you live in a continuous today. The fact that you went to the states, tells a lot that you were in great danger from him. Now you want to go back to him? Just be calm and everything will be fine with you, and with your two boys.
This year he won’t ever consider moving with you. But after February next year, when he will see everything through different eyes, he will consider coming to the states. Take my advice and do not move back under any circumstance. Time heals all wounds. Write back on this page after January next year, and I will look again at your chart and at his chart and tell you what I see.