I'm a female born May 23rd 1986 at 10:30. I'm in a long diatance relationship.

Maintaining a long distance relationship can be quite difficult. It may also be considered the test for your love. If you can survive it, there should not be problem bothering you in the later life.
Just an advice: keeping frequent communication should be the most important. Living in different environments, there should be misunderstandings happening quite often. Exchanging your mind with each other can help you dispel them. Every problem can be solved with sincere communication.

You are just making life hard for yourself, since this is your opposite year, and Neptune transits through your 5th House of love, making this area very unclear. And Neptune will stay there for the next six years. For you, a union is just an idea, not necessarily two people living together like others understand it.