hi why does me and my husband fight a lot? he's born april 17, 1979 and me aug 12,1982.

Actually, both of you have made great efforts to obtain a harmonious life. But things may not work out as you wished. The imperfections and different personalities may get enlarged when there is a conflict. The advice for you is to tolerate the imperfections and differences. Your love life can be refreshing because of these differences.