Will I find love again this year? Also, unstable finances have been going on a long time.

Just some advice. Although you have a strong desire to start a new relationship within the year, it seems to be hard to achieve only by yourself. You may turn to your family to let them introduce someone to you.
For your finance, you should take saving as the main tune of this year's financial plan. Reduce the expense on unnecessary profligate activities should be good.