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Asked by Linda from usa | Feb. 08, 2016 12:15

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I am born December 30,1970. My boyfriend was born November 18, 1968. Should we get married?

I have been alone for a long time after going through a nasty divorce. I am happy with him, however I am afraid if I get married I will once again go through another divorce. I am currently at a crossroads. Whether to marry or not. Both of us have children and our kids get along great however my kids are much older? indecisive, please help!

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Answered by Kristen S. | Feb. 10, 2016 11:16

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Hello Linda! Change can always be difficult, but the chance to seal the bond between you and you husband, joining youre famillies, can be a wonderful change! I just got married recently, and I was also unsure, but deep down, I knew what we were doing was right. If you cannot picture your future without this man in it, it is a wonderful thing! dont let fear of the unknown hold you back. Look deep in your heart, and be honest with yourself, but do not let worries of the past hold you back. Blending a family certainly has its challenges at times, but you get one life to live, and it is YOURS! Live for YOURSELF! It may be the best thing you ever do. Best wishes for a happy happy future!

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Answered by Peter | Feb. 10, 2016 21:08

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Hi Linda,
You are compatible in marriage, with your boyfriend. And remember this: only you and him. You stand to benefit from him, because he is Earth Monkey and you are Metal Dog. He is a family man. But if you expect that he should also get along with your parents and with your children, you stretch the astrological compatibility too thin. Go for it. It is his lucky year, and so it is your lucky year too. A marriage contracted this year between you two, would benefit him, and you will also be happy.

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Answered by Doc | Feb. 11, 2016 17:01

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Hey Linda,
Don't know if you got any advice from your older children yet, but let them know how you feel about this person and see what they have to say. Ultimately it will be a decision that will come down to just the both of you. Deep down I think the both of you know how far you want this relationship to go. If this leads to marriage go for it. If it doesn't, just remember all the good things in your relationship and be happy and continue to respect and trust one another.

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