should we spend any more time on our relationship and why?

I just ended a 20yr relationship with my daughters father. I did believe we were solemates when we were in love with each other. We even lived together right up to the day he actually left and took my 16yr old daughter with him (my only child) we had no longer been intimate with one another for The last 4 or 5 yrs of our relationship. Then George comes along and poof!!! Like magic there both gone to live, a 14hr drive away from me. Now here I stay. Am I wasting my time with George, Dog,29/10/1070. Me Leigh, horse,17/06/1978 or visa versa??