i'm virgo Monkey born Sep 21 1980 and he is Libra Ox born 10/10/1973.

Honestly, you don't make a decent couple. At the very beginning, you are attracted to each other. As time passes, you will find rapport lacks and conflicts may happen from time to time. If you really love each other, both parts should control your temper. Then you are still likely to stay together for long and end with a happy life with your kids.