Male dragon born 23 January 1965, female rabbit born 31 October 1963. Are we compatible?

Going is difficult, he's arrogant, stubborn, doesn't say what he means or do what is needed to make me feel secure in the relationship, not forthcoming with flowers or meals out, self centred, would do anything for anyone except me, never met his family. Me, I need to be told how he feels, insecure, don't feel good enough etc. I'm putting in more than my share of effort. Help!