June 24, 1966 (female) need direction in love, job, & life all together.

Breaking up with male October 8, 1975 of 4.5 yrs in SC & moved back to FL 8 weeks ago...deep love. Should I wait for him & go back to him? Or move on to next possibility? Cut the cord completely or keep trying? Also have absolutely no job, money, furniture, car...due to moving. I did give it all up for LOVE. My family is here in FL so I'm ok. And about next possibility which is an old flame from over 25 yrs ago that I recently ran into and still friends...anything there? What elements are all of us? About work....what should I do??? Have multiple talent, skills, intetests & experience. Whew, thanks 😏