female ox 18.10.1985 male rat 15.08.1984

I am falling for someone who lives two hours away from me. We both have two kids (four together)
I am surrounded by my loving supporting family who I appreciate so much that keep me living where I am and loving where I am and he has his children and their mum (she is an awesome mum) which makes him happy where he lives. I smile from my innermost sunshine when I am with him. We bring out some amazing qualities in each other. My question is
Does distance matter? Neither of us are jelous and are secure in what we have.
I appreciate your time reading this and look forward to your response.
Kind regards
Shardae