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Asked by Jane from malaysia | Jul. 15, 2015 12:36

About:Year of the Sheep / Goat

Marriage with a Horse Gemini

I am a goat born 30 jan 1980 and I married a Horse born in June 1978.

He has totally stopped work 3 years ago when our daughter was born saying that he will take up tuition assignments instead in order to enjoy flexibility in his life as opposed to a 9 to 5 one. But sheesh, none of it happened. In fact, he has been living off my earnings until I tried to draw a clear line of our money recently.

I have been quite tormented by the fact that I had married such a selfish man who does nothing to contribute to the household financially. I tried to talk to him 1 year ago but he flew into a rage saying 'why is everyone forcing me to work?!'. I was shocked. The only reason I have not initiated divorce is because I don't want my daughter to grow up in a dysfunctional family.

What shall I do? I thought we are supposed to be great match but it seems like I have married a very lazy and selfish man. Should I divorce?

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Answered by Jack | Jul. 16, 2015 01:21

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Jane, I personally think that you can scare him that you will divorce him if he doesn't want to work. If he still cares you and your daughter, he will move his ass out to seek a job. If he still doesn't want to work, I think it's a right decision to divorce. There is no future if you still lives with such a man.

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Answered by Kristie | Jul. 16, 2015 22:40

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I'm also a Ram and married a horse and has a daughter. He was the same way! Yes we end up getting a divorce. Our family isn't dysfunctional bc we try to get along for our daughter. She's happy and normal. Right now I'm also dating another person born on the horse year. That was just a coincidence. Let's see how this one goes.

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