I was born in the year of rabbit 1975 & my husband year of Rooster 1969

Well, these two signs are incompatible, according to Chinese zodiac. They both can't get along with each other. And they have conflicts very often. However, you shouldn't worry too much. The reason is that you both have different personalities and tempers. If you both learn to tolerate and compromise, you still are able to make your relationship better.