i am not happy with marriage life, please guide

Question

I am born on Oct 10, 1984 (RAT) married to the gal who was born on Nov 14, 1988 (Dragon). As per chinese astrology its a wonderful pair of 80%. But Its not true, we are always quarelling with each other and i am getting irritation and i dont know how our relation will go on in future. She is listening to her mothers sayings and i love my mom very much, i dont like someone speaking bad about my mom, so i will get irritated and scold her. after clearly telling her my mom is everything for me still she says something. Kindly help, frustated with lif

Sk · Answer

Chiranjeevi,   It takes two people to work on a  relation.you also have to improve yourself as a partner once ur married. You will always be your mother's loving son, no body can change that.if u tell ur wife u r as important to me as my mother, instead of saying my mother is every thing to me, it can make a breaking relation. Same time shower ur mother with love and ur time to show ur mother still means a world to you. If u can balance ur relation with both and act as a mediator for ur wife and mother saying good things about each other, it will work, try to keep balance in life and respect each other.every relationship in life needs love, care and attention, if u abuse it , it will not stay. Do. U have any guarantee if u remarry the same problem won't bb there.give respect to ur wife's parents as u expect  ur wife to give to ur parents..Good lucck

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