Answered by Charlotte Roque from Micronesia | Jun. 09, 2015 19:22
Are you truly willing to forgive and forget that he violated your trust, love, and marriage? And is he truly sorry or sincerely willing to change? If you can't forgive and forget you might bring it up in the future and that is a bad thing if he's truly trying to change because you might make him revert to his old ways. If he's not willing to change and you forgive him you can't expect not to get hurt again. All of this emotional healing is going to take years, maybe forever. I understand that your child is in your best interest but raising a child in a broken home is just as bad as raising them in an unhappy home. I was born on Oct 13 1990 and I can only imagine how hard and hurt you are. But my moral is if he cheated on you, he probably wasn't happy to begin with. Until that issue is confronted and resolved don't waste your time trying to make a marriage work with someone who clearly doesn't value it. Life is too short to live unhappy. You can love him for the rest of your life but are you happy? Good luck to you and I hope you find the best decision for you and your son.
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