I am a rooster and he's a rat

Honestly, this match might have troubles in their relationship. Roosters remember every shorcoming of the Rat and keeps mentioning many times. You know, rat is hoping to find someone who cares and loves him. He doesn't need a woman who criticizes him all the time. Rooster doesn't understand this. As a result, both sides feel hurt.

So if you both want to make your relationship work, then you both should learn to be tolerant. Encouragement is much more useful than criticism.