Me and my partner are both dragons. We are almost 9 years together and are fighting everyday.

Simone, I think you already have an answer. If your relationship is good, you both wouldn't have always fought with each other.

People of your zodiac signs have strong desire of leadership. Even a female prefers to make decisions on her own. She doesn't want the protection from her husband. If you still want to continue your relationship, you both sides should learn to compromise. Meanwhile, you should give each other enough personal space and time.