I'm feb25 1981 & my bf was April 21 1984.are we compatible

You are suitable to each other, but there is difficulty to stay together, because mutual understanding lacks. I suggest you try to understand each other and share both the happiness and sorrow in daily life. As time passes by, you can better get along with each other. Then it's time for your marriage. BTW, the male may be shy sometimes, so the female should be active and care much about the female.