i've been in love with my rabbit hubby for 32 yrsmy feelings are still the same

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Our relationship has always been up and down, but lately I've noticed he's too quiet and distant and sad.. We have 5 beautiful  adult children ranging 29 to 18yrs old and they have all happily left home .  I am feeling like I think he wants his freedom. Twice while we argued he said he wanted a divorce but then later on that day he is friendly and happy and everything is OK with him. I love him so much and I am getting old and unattractive, and he is always surfing the Internet looking at porn..pretty women muscley men and cars. Do you think this would be healthy if  I was to help him along with the idea of getting a divorce? Of course I don't want another man in my life bit I do want to  give him his freedom. The ugly thing is, is that I'll be the one who aches and cries and be unhappy. But I know I gave to let go.. any advice appreciated

Andy · Answer

Arnz, I don't think he wants the divorce. If he wants, he will divorce you. And he should have been friendly after you argued. By the way, you shouldn't tell him that you find his little secret. In my opinion, you both have been used to your peaceful relationship and life. As a result, both sides feel tired and bored. I think you should talk to him and make efforts together to make changes. Your kids have their own life. Now you two should enjoy your own life. For example, traveling abroad together. Letting him go isn't a solution.

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I've been in love with my rabbit hubby for 32 yrs and my feelings are still the same