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Cristy, there isn't any mistake. If you read rat and horse relationship in the form, the result is the same "poor match". However, I might give you more explanation on your relationship.

Horse longs for freedom and is an optimist. Ox is always diligent and makes great efforts to build a cozy family. Ox can't understand why horse always changes. Horse doesn't take good care of ox very well and just cares about how to make her happy.

That's why your relationship is so difficult. If you both can make changes for each other, you may have a chance to make your relationship work.