I am ox born 23 September 1973 will i have a good life with a female born in 11 September 1982,

Sagar, you both are incompatible according to Chinese zodiac. Ox and dog always have disagreements. It's not because they have different opinions. It's because their personalities are totally different.

However, your future is in your in hands. If you both could make compromise all the time and learn to tolerate each other, you still have chances to be together.

It all comes down to trial and error, but anyway, best of luck. A friends with benefits relationship would be more suitable.