my partner of 18 years born 25.12.54 has just died. my dob 14.8.55. I feel so sad so tired.

Sorry to hear that, Steph. However, life still goes on. You need to pull yourself from the deep pain. I believe that she would be happy in another world if you could take good care of yourself.

By the way, your health is good in 2015. You won't have spleen and stomach diseases. However, you should take a good rest when you are very busy. And you should pay attention to your health in summer.