m a female tiger with a male snake... very passionate but when we struggle its soooo hard what to do

It's difficult for iger and snake to get along with each other. They both are impulsive, suspicious and demanding. They don't trust each other even after getting married. Because they lack common language, they also have problems in communication.

If you both really want to be with each other, you should learn to trust each other and communicate with each other frequently.