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Asked by Sarah from usa | Aug. 06, 2014 18:55

About:Year of the Dragon

Female Dragon (09.01.88) Male Tiger (11.20.86)

November 10th will be our 5 year anniversary, but we're still not engage. He says I'm the best partner, lover, and friend he's ever had but he's still afraid to get married. Is there anything I can do to help him work through his fears? Or am I giving up my chance to become a wife and mother by choosing to stay?

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Answered by Daisy | Aug. 07, 2014 01:18

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Sarah, tiger and dragon interact with each other very well. They are both bold, ambitious and energetic. When they are togehter, they usually encourage each other a lot. Their life is full of romance at te beginning. However, their passion may disappar after they get along with each other too long.

It's true that some men are fear of getting married. Girls like you should do whatever they can do to help them overcome their fear. But I think that some men need to be pushed to make their decisions. So I have a piece of advice. You may give him a deadline. If he still can't agree to marry you before that deadline, then you may free yourself and find someone who loves you and is willing to marry you.

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Answered by Sarah | Aug. 18, 2014 16:52

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Thank you Daisy. We made time this past weekend to talk about our relationship. He feels like he's not good enough for me, like he won't be a good husband or father. He's worried that being married means we stop traveling and seeing our friends. He's worried that having children means being broke and tired all the time. And he's worried a wedding will cost too much. These are all things we can work on together.

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Answered by Daisy | Aug. 19, 2014 01:09

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Sarah, he is inmature and unready for marriage. What's more, I feel that he is irresponsible, incapable and stingy too. I think you really rethink about your relationship. Just my opinion. I apologize if you feel hurt after reading my words.

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