my sign is a pig my kids are monkey rabbit and snake 2 or the 3 say to avoid pig?

Rabbit needn't avoid pig. However, monkey and snake are suggested to avoid pig because they are incompatible with pig. The compatibility here is for marriage purpose. And the incompatibility may have some effects on the relationship between pig and monkey, pig and snake. However, it doesn't mean that you and your two kids are irreconcilable. You should find out how to make friends with your kids and then establish a harmonious relationship with them.