Rabbit and Ox have been up and down for 7 years of struggles, should we let us go for our own goods?

I am the double fire of Leo and Rabbit that born on August 22, 1987. My stubborn earth and wood ox man that born on December 31, 1985. We have been lot of up and down going on for 7 years. We never been married and kids that I always dreams of ever since soon to be 7 years on June 30 (2007). I always want to be a wife and a mother of future children that I have been suffered for waiting on him. He was been work so hard to keep a relationship since he learned to love me, but he did not make me happy by giving me what I want from my dreams. I am losing the faith and light in him because I felt he is not a true love for me and been felt not right for me to continue a relationship with him. What can I do with that stubborn Ox man?