Lanie from Phils.-my sign is dragon 8/28/52 and my husband is sheep 7/7/55

My husband and I have been separated since July 1983 I would like to ask if there still reconciliation? If yes when? if not will I be able to find someone here in the Philippines or in USA or Australia. I'm planning to visit my relatives either of the two which for you prefer. And which of the 2 countries will be approved ?Thanks