Can a ox and a tiger live together?

Thinking about marrying . She's my opposite so energetic and vibe and me I'm just a slow and kick back man. She is a 39 years old tiger and me a guy ox 41 yrs old this year too. Will our love or can be live with each other forever. How and what we must do to live and be happy? Everyone don't think ox and tiger get along . We born 1973 & girl 1975.