love compatibility snake/libra - rooster/aries

when we are good , we are the best couple you have ever seen but when we are bad it is like we dont no each other , we cant talk and we say the worst stuff to each other because we no how to hurt eachother . but at the time we speak before we think, it takes us ages to get back to normal , we have both never been in love like this and dont want a stupid argument to mess us up ??