can a male dog and a female Dragons love last? we've been together 5 years its a love hate thing.

Dog and dragon are not compatible according to the zodiac sign compatibility theory. But I think you two are the exception. You have been together for five years and have a lovely son. It's amazing. If you want yourself to be the focus, then you should learn from your husband. It's personality difference. I don't think it's a big problem.