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Asked by carol from usa | Mar. 11, 2014 21:53

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Taurus horse(female) and Aries monkey(male).

We were married for 33 years when we divorced. His idea. Could never figure him out. I never knew what he was thinking. Its been six years and I don't know what happened. He was a jealous person. Of my relationship with our daughter and other family. He said I was a disappointment to him. He has every toy he wanted. It was never enough. Never used a lot of them. It was sort of strange to see our marriage end. I cried for nine months. I moved on. I still don't know why he was so angry with me. He told our daughter he wanted to see me destroyed. To end up with nothing. Looks like it may happen. I have no car, health so-so. Trying to get better. May lose my home. But I feel like a failure. Just need an encouraging word. Thanks

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Answered by Howard | Mar. 12, 2014 03:40

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You said you moved on. Then why don't you bother youself by figuring out why he was angry with you? A loser just complains others and never reflects on himself. You are not a disappointment to him. Instead, he is a disappoint to you. Finally, you leave him and have chance to start a new life. Don't think of him ever. Everyone is afraid when they encounter too many difficulties. But they won't be afraid anymore when they overcome all the difficulties. Just be brave!

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Answered by Ashley | Mar. 13, 2014 17:32

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Never forget that a person's actions reveals their character, not yours. If your husband was so angry towards you for so long: first off - you have to remember your worth and that you deserve better, and secondly, he obviously was not happy with himself and in turn he projected his anger on to you. As a mental health worker, most issues tend to rise from upbringing and how he was raised as a child. The only thing you can do is keep a positive mindset. When you are thinking positively, good things will happen. This is because you will start trying to see the good in situations, rather then the bad. Obviously you are going through a struggle right now, but remember your worth and that you deserve to be treated with love, compassion and respect. I hope the best for you.

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Answered by angelo | Mar. 13, 2014 23:41

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Hey carol , beat yourself over this , you seem like a nice person, I am in the same
Situation my wife just told me she doesn't want to do this anymore , after 13year of marriage, I feel your pain, I cried alot too but I have two beautiful kids and no one can take that away from me .luv ange.

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