I was born July 31, 1985. Please give me some insight for this coming 2014

I am getting married on sept 20, 2014, with someone who is also an ox (6/7/1985). I want to know the outlook of our year; our relationship with each other and with our families (we have 3 children his little boy from a previous marriage (2/14/07) and my two little girls (10/30/07 and 11/23/08) and with wealth and prosperity as we move in together and begin our lives with one another.