Will I married next year in 2014 and will it last?

I'm a lady born in January 5,1975 marrying a man born in October 30,1973 ? We are struggling with following each other tradition. Man opposed to Chinese tradition marriage but woman wants to follow tradition. Help!! Will this marriage work? Will it last ? Or should separate / horoscope not match. Tiger/ ox? Help or we are not made for each other?