i am a tiger born and i am married my ex boy friend is horse again got in love

wat can i do pls help me i don't want to make my husband and ex boy friend angry. i and my lover had a break up because he was not setteled and he was younger than me.but we loved each other a lot . but now we again met with each other started to talk a lot ....both of us are loving a lot .... my husband is a monkey born.why we met again and why we started love more