He was born February 16 1989 and mine is November 20 1987. Is my husband right for me?

Yes, you two are well suited. In daily life, you can often get along with each other, so there is hardly argument between you two. However, you may have different attitude to a same matter. Upon this, you'd better discuss to find a final solution. Well, Chinese astrology shows that you have a chance to be together for life long.