My DOB is 10/23/91 and my boyfriends is 12/28/84 we`ve been going through a really rough patch lately, will we make it through?

I'm afraid it will be a little hard. It seems that you are just a match because of an impulse. Therefore, there are many problems between you two. If you really love him, communicate more with him to well deal with the problems between and then you may get a chance to be together for long.