Earth Dragon and Metal Horse love compatibility, same sex lovers (females)

I'm born in 5/9/88
she is born in 10/7/90
we are both female lovers.

Most of the time we amuse each other, laugh together, find things admiring about each other. Everyday we are together it feels like a new day. Sometimes I feel I'm in a different world when I'm with her. Then there are those times when she's too much sensitive to little things, especially if things don't go her way. It's in those times we clash. It's then we have arguments, disagreements, like there are things that compromising is not in the picture. In those moments I feel like I need space from her, just to cool off, breathe, and gather more strength to be patient. So that I can tolerate her impatience and her sensitivity to things.

I would just like to know is there potential or luck in this relationship to last very long in a strong bond with one another? She is an amazing woman. And We have a great friendship. It's just as I've said, its those times that are really rough. And every time we clash in our wills and wants in certain times we want. It's in those moments we just cannot get along. But we get back together and move on. Mostly we take turns depending on our moods who gives way. But 75% I'm happy when I give her what she wants most of the time. I feel like I'm the one mostly adjusting in the relationship to make it even. It can be overwhelming. But then again I feel that I'd prefer that then not please or satisfy her at all. Also, lastly sometimes I feel she doesn't understand me in how I think things to be in a straight direction. I know we both have very strong minds. And values. I am confident that our values and our strong minds can make our relationship stable and produce more strength in our relationship. But what I am not confident in is how she understands things. I feel like she has the tendency to run on anything she gets her mind to, she's quick minded, ready to make a move, but I feel she doesn't give enough time to evaluate things thoroughly.