Hi, I met this guy he is born in 1973 (ox) and I'm 1984 (rat).

Sometimes, men tend to hide their real feelings because they are afraid of rejection, they could not handle bruised ego. However, in your case, the guy you are dating with already told you that he likes you a lot. That's the start!!! Since you also like him, I don't see any reason why you need him to be showy with his feelings when you both have the time in the world to know each other better. Give it a shot Melanie, just don't rush & who knows, the two of you could be another 2 less lonely people in the world :)

Be cautious! He's older... He could be seeing someone else. Let him show his feeling first. If he's unsure with his feeling, you should not continue the relationship avoid getting yourself hurt.

Hi ... thanks for that advice. But i got a text from him that im in his thoughts but he is too busy and he dont think that he wants a relationship and he's sorry... so i text him back that no problem we can always stay friends... its a very weird feeling and i dont get it. Our dates was so perfect... well i guess that was the end of it.