hi , I am tiger and my husband is a rabbit, we have alot of problems especially this year

hi , I am tiger and my husband is a rabbit, we have alot of problems especially this year, we almost separate since end of may 2013, whats going on?!, can we come back together? and i myself have a very bad year this year alot of different problems happning? how long takes to gt of this bad times.
thanks for your time